Prego questions... for teens moms and moms?

what is the difference between getting your actual period and getting spotting (assuming you may be pregnant)?





i took a test two weeks after conception and it read negative, but i am waiting till week four to take a second one... is this a good idea?





for teens who have gotten prego.... what happened to you if you got pregnant as a teen in a small quite, medioquer town? how did you handle this? do you think your parents would really kick you out of the house if they said they would? did the father (your boyfriend) leave you? did your friends support you?





is being pregnant as a teen at all the way they make it seem in the movies or is life hell....





thanks :(

Prego questions... for teens moms and moms?
You spot for like maybe 2 days 2 were you dont even have to wear a pad or tampon so its nothing like a period. No cramps or anything like that. Its a very light pick color also. It would be a good idea to wait for 2 more weeks because not all women can get a a test that early











Im 35 weeks pregnant and 16. THe father denies the child and wants notihng to do with us. My mom was more dissappointed then anything but now she is so happy she is going to be a grandma...Some movies make it seem so much easier then it is. I has so many dreams for my life and some of them i cant do and some i wont be able to do for quite some time. Dont let me get you wrong tho i would not give up my son for anything in the world. I love him so much already and i didnt even try to get pregnant. I was avoiding it by using the depo shot but i guess its not 100% I struggle everyday and hes not even here yet. I thank god i still have my mom thru this because some parents dis own their child.
Reply:i became pregnant at the age fifteen.. my mom always told me id be out the door if i ever got pregnant.. but she didnt she fell in love with my son.. i had my second son by age seventeen an mom still was there to help me one hundred percent... the answer to your question will the boyfriend stick around.. hell no he wont he may for a bit which that his highly unlikley .. he will go on with his happy life while you suffer the consaquences for the both of you .. if you are pregnant i wish the best of luck.. and if you have any kind of mother like mine she will be there to help.. my oldest is sixteen this month an she still there for me during the rough times. it just may take her a little time to ajust thats all.
Reply:it is very hard to have a baby when your a teen, but not impossible. i had my baby when i was 17. not only did i have to worry about school, but i couldnt work anymore and desperately needed money for me and the baby. i ended up graduating early and am on my way to college in the fall. my mom has been supportive of me because she was also a teen mom and had a very hard time.
Reply:i was preg by senior year of high school in a VERY small town. i graduated with 40 if that tells you anything. everyone talked. i was on the dance team and stuck it out because my doc told me it was ok. the moms, not the teachers or students, starting telling the coach and my principal that i should be kicked of the team. my coach and principal actually stood by me. my friends stayed my friends and most of the school was pretty supportive. being preg in high school was unheard of until me...haha. you really have to learn to ignore things. my parents were upset at first but were very supportive in any decision i made. i was 17 and the dad was 22, stuck around but i pretty much handled everything on my own and then about 4 months after my son was born i grew up and he didn't. i decided i wanted more so moved on. i am now 22, married to the most wonderful man, and am 31 weeks pregnant with boy number three. i don't get it though..how old are you and y do you want to be pregnant as a teenager???
Reply:i was pregnant as a teen, my parents weren't overly thrilled at first, but got more excited about it when i came closer to my due date. i thought my dad would kill me, but he has really been there for me. most of the kids at school, were really supportive, even the really popular girls offered to babysit if i needed them and they gave me gifts too. some of the emo or goth kids made some really rude comments though ( i think they were jealous because i wasn't pretending to be pregnant like they did). and life really isn't that hard. the only problems i have right now regarding me being a mom is that my daughter's dad makes it hard ( we split up a couple of months after she was born, and because i don't want him back he is an *** all the time) the reason we broke up was because he kept putting me down all the time to his friends about stupid stuff( he got mad at me for doing a guys english paper and getting paid for it, which it didn't bother me)
Reply:well, if you took a test and it said negative, there was no "conception".


And, yes, it is hell. How would you go to school, graduate college, and get a job with a baby? You couldnt. If your going to have sex, use protection.


Your not pregnant, so take it as a lesson learned and be more careful next time.