Is it me or are teens these days just plain stupid???

I have been reading questions from these teens. It seems that most of them don't know how a person gets pregnant, or they want a baby or they need to have sex for some sick reason!








Teens: Are you paying attention in your sex ed classes??? If you are you should know about birth control and how a woman get pregnant!





Teens have no business having sex ( They don't need it! The plesure of sex was given to us by God for married couples only) and they shouldn't have the right to keep their babies! They are ruining their lives by doing this! There lives are over!





Teens: You don't need to have sex! Sex is made for married adults only! Save your self for marriage! It is the way God wants it and you will be better off! You don't need to have a baby to love you! If you want something to love you get a puppy or a kitten! You guys need to grow up and pay attention in your school studies! That is your only important job! School!!!

Is it me or are teens these days just plain stupid???
please do not be so bitter and judgemental
Reply:You need to shut the hell up!!!!!!Not all of us are that irresponsible.Sure some of us may have sex way too early,but not all of us.And instead of bashing teenagers on this site you need to keep an eye on your kids to make sure they aren't doing anything completly normal!!!!!! Report It

Reply:im a teen and i understood everything you just said Report It

Reply:The majority of teens and preteens are not stupid, some not quite mature yes, but stupid, no. And some of these questions in here I am sure are not sent by real teens, they are sent by players or pervs who get their rocks off when people post answers. Sex Ed, no matter how well its taught, needs a follow up by someone responsible, which usually is a parent, and in my house being the oldest of 5, I also talk to my sibs about sex, and sex abuse, and pregnancy, and try and answer any questons they got.





But please remember not to group all teens in the stupid catagory. .
Reply:Wow you sound a bit angry..... I understand to a certain extent what your talking about, most teens these days don't pay attention. However i have. I'm 16 and i have no intention of losing my virginity until there is a wedding band on my finger! I do however think you are being a bit paranoid. It's not your job to try and educate everyone else's kids. That's part of parenting is guiding your child to be a better person. I think having kids is for a married couple who is financially and emotionally ready in the relationship for a child. But you can't honestly expect teenagers to listen to you when your yelling at them. Be calm when/ if you talk to teens if you get upset, they will get upset, and therefore you lose w/e lesson you were trying to teach them.
Reply:I agree, parents need to be the ones that tell their kids about sex, not teachers or friends.
Reply:Yes. Kids these days are plain stupid, take Sweet Cherry right below me as a perfect example... but I don't agree with your standpoint.





I disagree with "teens have no business having sex". If you are mature enough, have the proper knowledge, are safe about it, and are mentally prepared for the possible consequences that will come with it, there is nothing wrong with a teenager having sex.





It is a natural instinct for humans to be curious. These kids grow up in an environment that is very media driven. The media around us is very sex driven because guess what... sex sells. Kids these days are having sex at a much younger age and that's not going to change, no matter how hard you try.





Sex isn't made for married adults only, as you view it based on your morals and/or religion. Sex is a biological function to help mankind evolve and continue to live. Outside of that, the desire to have sex is to enjoy life, other than to reproduce. See it as you may, but you're a fool for thinking sex is sick.
Reply:ITs you
Reply:Ummm...We aren't stupid, but not all of us have sex-ed (I did, and I paid attention) but the kids who are most likely to have sex are the ones who aren't paying attention, which is obvious if you think about it. Anyway, it's kinda embarassing to admit that you don't know the difference between the anus and the vagina.
Reply:hey it's just you! I'm a teen and i take great offense to this question. Why do all you people have to just judge some teens decisions and then aply it to the whole population. That's like asking are ADULTS all stupid i mean they had us all? Plus all this attention you people are giving this issue just make some teens want to rebel more.
Reply:THANK YOU!!! no teen should b having sex at the age of 12-15 its just sick! and apparently most teens now days are freaking dumb blondes!!!! im 14 and im way freaking smarter than some of the teens on here
Reply:I don't think that they are stupid, I think that their parents haven't informed them enough, and made themselves available for any kind of question no matter how hard or embarrassing it is to answer. They deserve to have ope communication with your parents to make sure they are well informed
Reply:ok deep breaths...
Reply:so you aren't dumb, yet you spell paid p-a-i-e-d?





stop going on the SAME rants over and over again.





and don't generalize all teens.
Reply:People that tell us not to make us want to rebel. I don't date, but that's because my mom encourges it. If you don't let your kids date, they will date behind your back, and do other things. They will be more likely to keep things that are *actually* important from you. Plus, they will be rejects at school, therefore will be bitter, and more likely to become slashers, or kill themselves. Just let your kids be, let them make their own decisions, and let them learn their own lessons.
Reply:teenagers are not "stupid" they are just very uninformed, the parents should be the ones answering those types of questions, but then again, i remember being a teen my self, and there are just some things that are embarrassing. as far as the sex thing goes, i agree wholeheartedly.
Reply:Since "everyone else is doing it" and both society and the media push the sex angle, the pressure to conform and be accepted is intense.
Reply:Honestly, this 'stupidity' as you say is only a symptom of the root problem: a non-existent relationship with the world's Savior, JesusChrist.





I am 18 and up until about a month ago was homeschooled. I am so thankful to God that he reached out to me and extended His grace. Prior to that (when I was 16) I got into a really bad relationship with a girl. I broke-up with her and i found out a few months later that she had had sex with someone! she had always said that she was waiting untill marriage but obviously that never happened. In retrospect, I beleive that i would now be a father had we stayed together.





The point is, without Jesus it does not matter what you do, you are your own god. You want to sleep around, go ahead who cares. It is when you surrender everything to Him, that resisting temptation becomes important.
Reply:Good effort sweety! Frustration causes me to attempt a statement occasionally too. I have learnt to try to stick to just answering questions. I figure if they're not asking then they don't want to know. If the truth must be told, even when they ask, they want the truth to be what they want. Thanks for saying it though.
Reply:I agree that teens should not have sex. I have never had sex, and will not until I get married. Mind you, it will be a wedding night to remember!!


And one of the reasons it will be a night to remember is that it will be a first. So many of my friends look back on their first time with regret. I don't want to do that
Reply:Some teens make the wrong decisions or take the wrong paths in life. The reason behind this could likely be an unstructured/ unsupervised home life.





I'm teen myself and prefer abstinance. I understand that there are other forms of contraceptives out there, Health class and all, and find myself bowled over by such idiocy.





But to say that teens have no business having sex and saying God deemed sex for married couples is controversial. So is saying that saving yourself is the way God would want it. In this day and age where there are so many different religions, different sects, there are several people who'd take offense and down right disagree.





Get a puppy or a kitten? Hmm...





I think I'll continue in the same train of thought that you've shown. God gave us free will, with free will we can choose to do things as we please, when we please.
Reply:Was there a question in that sermon?


First off, take your god crap out of it. That is what has caused most of the problems you are ranting about. Instead of a real sex-ed class that actually gives these kids the info they need, they get some kind of faith-based baloney that doesn't answer any of their questions or give them any information, and leaves them looking for answers in places like this. When are you morons going to get it through your heads that just telling kids "Don't screw until you get married because JESUS said so" doesn't work?
Reply:why do you go after people who for one aren't your age? is it cause you are so self centered that you have to go after someone younger then you? is it cause all adults suck and they don't like the way there lives aren't going the way they want it to go? another thing that you should do is get God out of your questions dammit. With all the **** that's on TV and in magazines these days what with actors and actress and musicians and stuff like that I'm not surprised that many teens get pregnant. and sex is not only for married people most people lose their virginity before they get married. Oh, Just so you know Many schools don't have 'Sex Ed' even if they did they don't tech what we (us children,'Teens') need. So does this answer your questions?
Reply:Teens having sex before marriage, teens getting pregnant ... this isn't anything new. If teens are considered stupid this day in age, say all teens of every decade has been stupid. Hell, my Grandma's first child was out of wedlock. That was 62 years ago. The only difference in a couple having premarital sex compared to a couple who had premarital sex and got pregnant is one got caught, one didn't.





I'm almost positive most teens do know how one becomes pregnant, but speaking on behalf of most teens -- most believe "it won't happen to me". Not to mention, many of them are too afraid of going to their parents to ask them to put them on birth control. Afraid, because of parents (such as you) lashing out at them and not understanding their normal teenage hormones. What happens next? Teenage pregnancy. Kids do what they want, they have a mind of their own...the majority of what they learn, they learn from friends, school, society in general. No parent lecturing "no sex till marriage" day after day will change what they WILL do. If anything, teens respect an honest parent, an open parent, one who understands what's it like to be a teenager, better yet, one who admits to their own mistakes that they made themselves.





In response to your "Where are the parents?!" comment...even the best parents who have taught their children all the rights and wrongs of life have children that make mistakes. Our preacher's son impregnated a girl at 16 years old, to say the least, he was a bit shocked basically because he thought he had been a "perfect" parent, he learned real quick that kids do as they please and not what parents wish for them. Point being, this is not a "perfect" world...things are changing, not for the better -- just telling your teenager daughter to wait till marriage doesn't work anymore. Congratulations on your decision to be a virgin bride at the age of 28... please understand not everyone is like you, not everyone makes that same decision. They aren't stupid, they're living and learning one day at a time.

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