Why are there too many teens on here asking questions about sex and what not?

The parents of these teens need to be sitting down and talking with their children so they do not come online asking questions about sex and adult things from total strangers. It is getting way out of hand which is causing too many teen pregnancies. The boys need to keep it in their pants and the girls need to keep their legs closed.





For those teens who have had more than one baby, apparently you did not learn from the first baby.





Kids these days are just in too much of a hurry to grow up. They are quick to do ADULT things but when faced with being pregnant they get scared. Well apparently you were not too scared to lay down and do the deed.





I advise all of you teens out there who are thinking of engaging in adult acts to sit down with your parents because it is not right at all, kids do not need to be engaging in adult activities. You need to keep your head in those books.





The teen girls need to keep their legs closed till they are married JMO.

Why are there too many teens on here asking questions about sex and what not?
My daughter is 14, she is the first to tell you that SEX has NEVER crossed her mind..Kids these days have sex because they don't have parents telling them other wise... Parents don't raise their kids anymore, they shove them to the side and allow them to do whatever they please, just as long as they don't have to deal with them. I know everything my daughter does, she tells me and her daddy everything. I have always raised my own kids, its my job to raise both my kids to be decent adults, raise them to respect themselves. I have always told my daughter, that the most important thing to a girl should be her reputation, and once that reputation has been tarnished, its hard to change it, once you are labeled, as a skank, whore, slut ETC you will always be just that, no matter how much you have turned your life around, once you are labeled that's it... Girls these days dress like hookers, talk like sailors and have more sex than newlyweds. It all comes down to the parents.
Reply:I am really glad this topic is discussed at length and seriously. Parents have to take lead and see that their kids become good citizens of tomorrow.A boy and a girl should understand that sex is not only a game. It is much more serious.. Report It

Reply:Great job, ArmyWife!


I so agree with you! I am 16 years old and I feel the same way. I guess these boys just think they're men, but they're not.


And girls, remember the seven B's.


Books Before Boys Because Boys Bring Babies! Report It

Reply:Teens ask questions here because they are curious about sex. Parents usually are uncomfortable talking to their teen-aged children about sex. Everyday teens are bombarded with images about sex. The urges they feel are very powerful. That's why teens ask questions about sex here. You said, "The boys need to keep it in their pants and the girls need to keep their legs closed.." That would maybe happen in a perfect world. The reality is that teen boys and girls are having sex. So if a teen ask a question about sex, answer it. Tell them about sexually transmitted diseases. Tell them all about birth control. Tell them about pregnancy. Educate them about the good or bad consequences about sex. Telling them to keep their legs closed or just don't have sex is very antiquated and unrealistic.
Reply:I think much of it is due to the saturation of sex in the U.S. culture. It's proliferate on TV, and sold in stores as the "in thing."





This is not a game, America is dying.
Reply:People are curious about these things and they should know before anything happens. Advice from others that have been through similar situations is probably one the best advice they can get. Talking to your parents about things like pregnancy is a very awkward thing to do. I have a hard time talking to my parents about these things and not everyone has a close relationship with them. Typing their questions on yahoo!answers is a way where no one knows who you are and lets people ask these questions freely. Not everyone is at a level like yours where they would want to wait till marriage. Everyone has different views on this.
Reply:Unfortunately, many kids have problems talking to their parents about these issues. That is a result of bad parenting and, in many cases, it's not the teen's fault.





Instead of being upset that the teens are asking these questions, we as adults should take them under our wing and answer the things they want to know. Knowledge is power.





I'm not saying to hand out advice to teens on how to have sex or perform certain sexual practices. But answering questions about missed periods, safe sex, and STDs is a good way of informing the UNDER-informed so that they can at least have the chance of improving their behavior.





If they don't get their questions answered by anyone and receive no help, they'll just continue with the same irresponsible behavior.
Reply:cuz some teens arent comfertable talking to there parents about sex and there bodies. there is absolutly nothing wrong with that either. no matter what you say, teens are gonna have sex because it feels good. marriage is NOT always the best time to have sex because it might not be the right moment. we are not trying to grow up fast, teens are teens and no matter how much you may not like the idea, teens are still gonna do it. You were a teen once. And if you have kids, you should know that kids do "discover themselves". You have no control over that. Would you rather have "kids" not know any imformation about sex, and when they do have sex, they get caught with STD or AIDS! Wouldn't you want your son or daughter to know what sex is and know the dangers AND pleasures of it. Seriously! maybe your the one who needs help! Sex doesnt come at a specific date, it happens. so you need to get your head out of ur AS.S and get a ****** clue!
Reply:I remember my first time was when I was 16, maybe too young but we did use protection...Also he pressured me for a really long time, time after time. on the night in question he wouldn't give up and he asked me for about an hour and said he'd buy me lots of stuff. I was really scared and he even said he would wear TWO condoms. I think the boys can be too aggressive and won't give up.
Reply:If parents talk to their kids about sex and make sure their is condoms available.parents tell the child to let them know if they have sex so that they can get on bithcontrol when the kids ask the parents blow up and the trust is gone.
Reply:oooo shut the **** up it aint YOUR decision to tell us wat to do!!! which teens agree wit me its OUR lives!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:I don't know but they need to worried about getting the HIV or AIDS while they are tiring to have sex
Reply:Wanna know why they do it. Its simple realy - because parents are to blind to see that there kids will have sex if given the opertunity to do so. My parents were to freakin scared to sit down with me and talk about that kind of stuff when i was that age. However its great that you dont want your kids to do this. I however have no intention of listening to anything any adult says. I lost it when i was 13 and have no regrets about it cuz i married the guy (no not becuse i was pregnent) I am very happy. Bottom line kids will do what they want. There is simply nothing parents can do about it.
Reply:it's easier to ask complete strangers these types of questions than to ask your own parents. reason being you don't know these people and you probably never have to talk to them again. about teens being sexually active that is their decision. its not affecting you in any way. so if anything just take care of yourself and take your own advice of keeping your legs shut. and maybe your mouth too. you are no one to judge and i think 4 kids is enough.
Reply:Good luck on getting any positive answers...these kids on here are not going to listen. It's about how they perceive themselves and how they were brought up; unfortunately this means they feel entitled and on an equal footing with adults. I pity them because they have no idea what the consequences of sex really mean (AIDS, teen motherhood, etc.).





Bottom line, it's up to their parents to guide them into adulthood. Too bad so many parents are not doing their jobs right, if at all.
Reply:i know iam a teen but i get scared about the questions about sex dont ask why
Reply:I find it kinda stupid that u are makeing such a big deal outa teens asking about this stuff, maybe they CANT TALK TO THEIR PARENTS ABOUT IT!!!


geeze not all parents are so great to talk to about this kinda stuff, u was prolly able to talk to ur parents about sex but that doenst mean that we can! so u shud STOP judgeing us !!!


and about the boys keeping it in their pants and the girls keeping their legs closed .. dont tell us wat to do ok? thats not ur job.