Monday, November 16, 2009

Pregnant Teens?

1.Why do teens have sex before they are married?


2. If the baby father isn't around how does the pregnant teen take care of the baby ?


3. Why dont pregnant teenager tell some one that they are pregnant?


4.What does a pregnant teen do after having th baby , do they stay in school ,do the drop out?


5. what are some web sites were i can get this kind of information form?


6. how old were you when you had your baby

Pregnant Teens?
JUST SAY NO.





That is all you have to do.
Reply:1) Because the media has portrayed sex in everything. This world in general (not everyone individually) has no morals. Also, children %26amp; teens learn from example. 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s, you name it...have sex before they are married.





2) Usually the grandparents of the baby..depending on the age of the baby's parents.





3) Fear of the unknown, fear of having a baby, fear of getting in trouble by their parents, etc.





4) Some stay in school and some drop out. It all depends on the individual and their circumstances.





5) Try a search for teen pregnancy statistics


http://www.teenpregnancy.org


http://www.baby-parenting.com/pregnancy/...


http://www.pregnancy-info.net/teen_pregn...








6) I am 22, married, %26amp; Trying to Concieve.
Reply:Each teen's situation is different...teens have premarital sex because they want to. A lot of people [regardless of age] have premarital sex...don't act like teens are the only ones who do. But the girl's pregnancy could be a result of rape or failed birth control.





A smart girl would get a job and have some help from her family. But some girls take the easy way out and get on welfare or some other form of government assistance. A lot of teens who don't tell anyone are scared and fear disappointment and disapproval from family.





Whether she continues school or not depends entirely on her unique situation...if she goes to a school with daycare/can afford daycare, then she may very well finish high school and may even try for college. But if she doesn't have anyone to watch her baby and cannot afford daycare, she'd obviously drop out and may [or may not] get her GED once her baby starts school. I don't know any sites that focus on things like this...google whatever you're looking for and you'll find something.





I got pregnant at 14 but had an abortion [don't judge me, I was forced to have it]...but I know so many teen mothers. I hope to have a baby next year though. =]
Reply:1.Why do teens have sex before they are married? Teens aren't the only ones having sex before marriage, you can be 30 and not married and have sex.





2. If the baby father isn't around how does the pregnant teen take care of the baby ? The parents usually help them out or the state. After the "teen" graduates from high school or tech college, they will eventually find a job and get it together.





3. Why dont pregnant teenager tell some one that they are pregnant? Most times they are scared about how their parenst will react.





4.What does a pregnant teen do after having th baby , do they stay in school ,do the drop out? Some stay in school, some drop out. It all depends on the individual.





5. what are some web sites were i can get this kind of information form? Don't know





6. how old were you when you had your baby? I'm 25, married, and this is my first child.
Reply:I'm going to answer some of your questions according to my experience, the rest I won't answer. I'm a 14 year old teen and I'm pregnant.





1. I had sex for the experience and I wasn't happy with life and I was upset with life and I love bikes and I love doing risky things and if I died I didn't want to die a virgin and I didn't have friends.





2. The baby's daddy and I are together and happy. But I know a girl who was pregnant at 17 I think and the father left her when she was 8 months and shes doing just fine the father pays monthly.





3. I told my boyfriend and my mother that I was possibly pregnant and my mom bought me a pregnancy test and they obviously knew the results. I don't have any friends so my family are the only ones that know and my boyfriends parents. I'll tell everyone else soon. I first wanted to see that the baby was healthy





4. I do homeschooling because I hate those people and I have a social phobia. My sisters friend left for a year then went to college.





5. Just google "pregnant teens"





6. I'm going to be 15. My boyfriend will be 17 or 18 depending when its born but most likely 18.
Reply:1. Why? Because it feels good and either nobody taught them reasons not to or they rebelled against those who said don't. Feeling like you're in love and connected with somebody sometimes seems like the thing to do when you're a teenager and not sure where you belong.





2. How to care for the baby? Hopefully with a lot of support from her family. Otherwise the same as any single mom, hard work.





3. Why don't they tell? Because they're scared of being judged or their life changing or being forced to make a decision.





4. Some stay in school, some drop out, some get their GED.





5. Not sure I'll look





6. I was 18 when I got pregnant, 19 when I had him, in college and married. We're stable and there wasn't much issue with my being fairly young.
Reply:Sum teens hav sex cause they think it cool.


The mother if the child should hav known wut the father was going to do if he was goin to b there or not and the mother just got to step up and take care of her baby thats her baby!!! and she should have a special bond withe baby.


Sum b scard to tell anyone .


After she have the baby she get to stay home entil the baby is atleast 2mths then she should be able to putthe baby is sum type of baby sitter and go bac to skool


Idk


I am 19 and my baby mother is now pregnat and is due may 18 2008
Reply:1.Why do teens have sex before they are married?


-%26gt;Some because of peer pressure. Some think they are ready. Some love their boyfriend or girlfriend and are ready to take that responsibility.





2. If the baby father isn't around how does the pregnant teen take care of the baby ?


-%26gt;She can get help from her parents or maybe even grandparents. If they don't want to help their are all kinds of shelters and hotlines that will help out. They can put their child in day care and get a job. Or they can choose to put their baby up for adoption





3. Why dont pregnant teenager tell some one that they are pregnant?


-%26gt;Fear of being judged and harressed. Losing friendships, scaring their boyfriend, disapointing their parents.





4.What does a pregnant teen do after having the baby , do they stay in school ,do the drop out?


-%26gt;Every teen is different. Some decide to drop out of school and get a full time job. Others get a part time job and stay in school and others get a lot of help from their parents and stay really focused on school.


I go to a continuation school (for grades not a baby) and it has a free day care where the moms can drop off their babies before class and see them at lunch and stuff. They also offer free parenting classes. %26amp;%26amp; the pregnant girls get to have their lunch before everyone else =/





5. what are some web sites were i can get this kind of information form?


-%26gt;Just google it.





6. how old were you when you had your baby


-%26gt;I don't know how old I'll be when I have one.
Reply:Well first if you have not been there you can't possibly understand. I was 15 when I got pregnant. I thought I was in love and even thought I was having unprotected sex with my boyfriend at the time I was what everyone forgets a KID and thought I knew it all. I am now 25 and my daughter will be 9 in 2 months. I was married to her father and so divorced I continued to go to school and yes life is hard but even harder as a single parent. I have been married to my second husband for about 8yrs. and have no regrets about my daughter I have raised her the best I could she is in 3rd grade and is GT and top of her class. You don't drop out of school WHY? Cause that is what is expected of you. You do go to collage and you succeed with life. I am 25 and am now getting ready to extend my family. I have learned alot along the way and hope that no one will ever think that because you get pregnant at a young age that nothing can be done because it can.
Reply:1. Because they are horny. Not only teens have sex before marriage, many people do.


2. The Mom, like any single parent takes care of the baby just fine and may have some help from family members.


3. Maybe they are scared that people like you will be judgemental and give them a rough time.


4. Some stay in school, some drop out just like a lot of kids who dont have children.


5. Google it and find out for yourself.


6. I was 18 when I had my baby. I finished school. I'm engaged. 19 now and I'm a damn good Mommy!! Better Mommy than some 30 year olds I know. So are my two teen friends who had their babies at 17.





I strongly disagree with those saying you will have a brutally hard life. It's really not as bad as people make it out to be. When you have your baby you want to do things for he/she. My baby is the best thing that has ever happened to me and she has inspired me and my partner to better our lives. She gave us something to work for. Now we both have our own successful business's. I dont encourage falling pregnant as a teen, I'm just saying that if you do it's not the worst thing in the world. And you'd be suprised how supportive even the most rigid parents are.
Reply:1.Why do teens have sex before they are married? Because They Want To/ Are In A LongTerm Relationship.





2. If the baby father isn't around how does the pregnant teen take care of the baby ? They Look To Their Parents Or The State For Money, Home, Food Etc.





3. Why dont pregnant teenager tell some one that they are pregnant? Because Theyre SCARED. They Dont Want People To Jump To Conclusions About Them/ Think Theyre Stupid Sluts, Etc.





4.What does a pregnant teen do after having th baby , do they stay in school ,do the drop out? If They Can Get Parents Family Or Friends To Help Out They Stay In School... If Its Compulsory Education (Under Sixteen) I Dont Know Though..





5. what are some web sites were i can get this kind of information form? Google And Wikipedia Know All. ^^





6. how old were you when you had your baby Dont Have One Right Now xD
Reply:1. We just do I'm 19 but I'm married; I got prego by my hubby when I was 16 and he was 17, we had only been BF and GF for a month.





2. Get job Get help through the state faily friends.





3. cus they are scared and don't know what to do.





4.well i droped out then got my GED but some stay in school and even go to college.





5.just search it .





6.two months away from being 17
Reply:Just so you know


1. I'm 26, not married to my bf and don't plan to ever marry him. Were pregnant with our first child. Weve been together for almost 6 years.


2. the parents of the teen.


3.they are too scared.


4. some places have schools where they can take their children.


5. ?


6. I will be 27 when our baby is born.
Reply:You can't genrelise, everbody is different. They deal with pregnancy and motherhood differently. Some teen mums cope well, some don't. Some stay in school, some don't.





What is it your wanting, statistics? Thats also going to vary depending on where you live.
Reply:i'm 19 and pregnant with my first child. i've been with the father for 4 years though but we're not married. so...its not bad i finished school already and have a job. i plan to take care of the baby i'm not an idiot and i think i'll be a great mom. no all teens are stupid.
Reply:first of all, i'm 19 and married before i got pregnant. so don't stereotype.





3 out of 4 teenagers have sex BEFORE they get out of high school.
Reply:Yeah don't sterotype. I'm 22 and I'm not getting married and I'm pregnant!


I know alot of teens that take care of their babies just fine and go to school and work.
Reply:STAY IN SCHOOL!


There are programs that can help you.
Reply:1. Pregnant teens have sex before they are married because they aren't thinking, they are following their hormonal impulses to have sex. Abstinence is the only 100% reliable birth control method and I recommend it strongly to all teenagers. It worked for me.





2. If the baby's father isn't around the mother becomes a single mother struggling (often for the rest of her life) financially and to provide the basic necessities for her child. Especially if the mother hasn't even earned her High School Diploma yet. Most 2 parent, happily married couples struggle financially even with Bachelor's degrees in the present economy once they bring children into the world. Don't have sex until you are married and you eliminate the possiblity of this heartbreak, of bringing a child into the world alone to an uneducated and unprepared mother.





3. Pregnant teenagers are afraid of judgement, ridicule and are plain scared. They don't know where to turn for help. They do not understand what is happening or how to get help.





4. When a pregnant teen has a baby they often drop out if the school doesn't offer free childcare during school hours for teen mom's babies. Unless you have an unusually understanding and kind SAHM (stay at home mom) who can watch the baby 24/7 finishing school will be impossible.





5.Google for websites on unplanned pregnancy. I recommend Planned Parenthood, which is always big on prevention and birth control education. They also offer free or low cost abortions.





6. I am nearly 30 and pregnant with baby #3. Happily married for 7 years. I recommend abstinence, finishing your education including college, finding that special someone, marriage, then settling down to have a baby.





Children shouldn't have children. Teenagers have so much potential and its a shame to waste that becoming a Mom at such an early age. It limits your possiblities and makes for a brutally hard life. Be smart and stay in school. Just say "no" to sex before marriage. Wait for the right guy. If he's the right one, he'll wait happily for sex until he marries you. Sex is a gift that deserves a lifetime of love and comittment in return. Don't squander that on some pimply faced teenage boy who can't appreciate it. Wait until you are an adult and you can find a real man to marry you first, then you make love. That's what I was taught and I have a beautiful romance with my husband of seven years. Please listen. It could change your life!
Reply:BIRTH CONTROL!!!!!





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