Serious question about teens?

has your teen ever told you she or he had been taken advantage of and if so what did you do? teen rape is swept under carpet because they are teens or is it because of lack of evidence? I mean teens can rape teens right? when does it become a problem and how do parents deal with it? I know the teens have hotlines to talk about it but what about the parents? I am so angry. I do not know why this happens. I heard this jerk said "this will only take a few minutes, dont worry it will be fast"....what the hell...isnt this a statement rapist make? I dont know anyways, my friend is having a hard time with this and I feel her pain.

Serious question about teens?
gee. im sorry to hear about this.


it happened to me a long time ago. was with my bf at that time and the fight was hopeless, so i gave up and just blanked out; so i lost my virginity to an ***. its a nightmare after that and being young, you're not sure what to do. as a teen, i was afraid to lose my bf. i was too scared to talk to someone. u can press charges and itll be a 'he and she'' said. depending how long ago it was. unless they're are evidence that he raped her, such as a medical report of tearing or bleeding. clothes with his sperm, somthing to that effect or someone present to witness him leaving with her or drugging her. but most of all (to me) its her/his voice being heard and ACCEPTED. thats the most important thing. that someone believed them and that they are safe now.





hope that helps.
Reply:I don't care what age you are; date rape is violence. Your friend should contact the authorities on this. If she doesn't, this male teen can grow to be a habitual sexual predator and prey on more victims. She should do so immediately and call 911.
Reply:Yes, of course teens can rape teens. But when you're "making out", kissing, flirting, drinking, maybe doing a little grinding and touching, and then the guy forces himself on you, that's not "rape". I'd say that was just a case of "oops! I changed my mind!!"
Reply:well im a teen myself..sometimes it just happens uno? we can't help it or you or your friend can't really do anything about it..because the only reason why that girl told her mom in the first place is beause it probrably happened a long time ago...it juss happenz..it sux ;(
Reply:Hey im a teen girl. and YES teens can rape teens. If their parents know about this they should got to the police now!


My 15 year old friend had an incident where she was in a graveyard ( dont ask ) with her boyfriend who got her drunk (and so was he)and made her give him a bl0wjjob. All her ''friends'' had left them alone. . . unfortunately i wasnt there. In this case ^^ i dont think its rape.
Reply:I'd say call uncle Vinnie to beat his head in. But that wouldn't be civilized.





Better yet, call the authorities. Teen rape is rape. I don't care who, what, where, why, %26amp; how. He shouldn't get away from murder (figuratively). She will need to get over the fear, and face against him. He needs to be put in his place, before it gets worse.
Reply:control feelings and care self
Reply:"Friend rapes" are just as violating as stranger rapes, and in a lot of cases even more messed up because you know the person. And it really sets the pattern for a person if allowed to let this happen and not have any kind of consequences for it.


Am I saying report this? You betcha. If your friend got caught up with someone and it didn't "feel right"(mentally and rationally and emotionally), then she needs to talk to someone.


She can go down to the police department and speak to a female officer and see if they think it's pursuable.





Then she needs to get her behind into counseling to help her deal with this. Good luck honey.
Reply:I was 'taken advantage' of when I was younder but never reported it or told my parents. The guy I actually lost my virginity to got me drunk and high at a party and my "friends" at the time let him take me into a bedroom. I knew it would have been brushed off because I was under the influence %26amp; probably would have been scolded for that. But thinking back on it now I was underage, and he was not.





If it's not consent: it's rape. Maybe you should refer your friend to a counselor to talk to about it. They'll be angry and hurt and need to talk to someone, possibly a professional, to learn how to deal with the emotions and help their daughter or son deal with the problem a little better. Report the sick a*Hole who did this!: We don't need more of 'them' running around in the world.
Reply:The person who said 'it just happens'...**** YOU! You're a stupid ignorant person, You should NEVER take rape without a fight! If someone had sex with someone else without their full consent, it is RAPE. GO TO THE COPS.
Reply:No I am 19 years old and go to parties quite frequently. Anyone who is telling you "that it just happens and it sucks" is a retard. If your daughter had enough guts to come to you in this situation and in her "time of need" you definetly need to act upon it and help your daughter get thru this. Contact your local police and press charges on this sick minded a sshole who took your childs innocence and her virginity. You and your daughter will both regret not taking action in the future if you dont get this taken care of ASAP. Telling the police and pressing charges against this sorry "man" will hopefully prevent someone else from being in the same boat as your daughter.
Reply:yes it happen at ever party i got to like this is because stuiped parent let their 12 old girl go to big 16 yr old party so the drunk guys rap them but i dnt do that **** i have a sister so i have bash ppl
Reply:call the ****** cops, press charges, end of story
Reply:rape is rape no matter how old the person is. Your friend should definitely look into pressing charges so that the person who did this to her can't do it to anybody else. If she is really upset about it pressing charges or going to counseling might help her.